Life Without Facebook ~ A View From Gen Y #4

04/06/2012

Jessica robyn facebook_1 1_12 _5Jessica Robyn, a typical millennium and 7-year Facebook member, has not seen any of the new time lines for brands.

You see, on January 13, 2012 Jessica disabled her account and began an experiment of "Life Without Facebook."

This quasi social media reality series with Gen Y Jessica Robyn takes us into her world of Life Without Facebook where she offers her insights into the questions: Why? What now? How do you exist without Facebook?

Read Jessica Robyn's Life Without Facebook ~ A Veiw From Gen Y Interviews Part #1 Part #2 Part #3 Part #4  

We found it interesting that Jessica's posts have been the basis for talking points for parents to discuss Facebook with their children. Brand managers have also gained insights.

We also discovered people were not only curious about how Jessica is living without her online peeps, but how her friends are reacting. We thought it would be fun to ask a few so we formalized the process into an online survey. 

Here are a few comments from the question - What was your your reaction when you discovered I disabled my Facebook? 

"I was very skeptical. Porter was ALL about facebook in her hayday."

"I couldn't believe it."

"I thought it was cool since I had disabled mine before in the past."

 Diva Marketing/Toby: Your friends were really supportive of you disengaging from Facebook.  Although some people thought it was a joke. But they miss you. Did anyone’s comments surprise you?

Jessica Robyn: I laughed a lot reading Greg’s answer that parents being on Facebook ruined it. It’s funny cause I think out of all my friends my dad was one of the first to join Facebook. That is why I was glad there were so many privacy settings. 

Diva Marketing/Toby: I found it interesting that it wasn't one of your friends who want to see you back on Facebook but someone from the boomer generation , Auntie Kaye. - “Holy cow, how will I be able to see what is going on in your life?” 

Why did you think that is? What are you doing to stay in touch with Auntie Kaye?

Jessica Robyn: I think Facebook is just an easier way to at a glance find out what a bunch of people are doing at once and what’s new in their lives. I know Auntie Kaye liked seeing pictures of what I was doing and who I was out with so clearly that hasn’t been happening. We have emailed and talked on the phone to keep in touch.

Diva Marketing/Toby: You’ve been off Facebook for almost 3 months now. Have you missed anything, other than chatting with your friends, from not being on Facebook?

Jessica Robyn: It’s weird cause I wasn’t really missing Facebook or thinking about it until a few weeks ago.

One of my close friends was throwing a surprise party for another one of our mutual friends and I found out about a week or so after that I wasn’t invited. She called me a few days later to apologize explaining that she and another person planned the party mostly via a private facebook event and she forgot to let me know outside of that resource.

I know at the time I wasn’t physically out or around as often (I sprained my ankle and have been recovering), but I had still been in contact with her via text message and email. I wasn’t on her mind during those conversations to invite me. To be honest, I was a little hurt, but I was also expecting something like this might happen.

Diva Marketing/Toby: Your friends have given you all sorts of suggestions for when you should go back on Facebook:

One year from the day you gave it up. 365 days of life without fb!

When you feel like you can use it on your terms. Don't get sucked into anything you don't want to!

Totally up to you. It is more a part of a younger person's world- but not essential. Certainly a nice resource to have- but not at the expense of meaningful relationships.

What do you want to say to them?

Jessica Robyn: I think the one year idea is interesting, but I have no idea if that will happen. I think a few of my friends know me well enough, are supportive, and also understanding which is why none of their responses shocked me.

  • I will reactive my account at some point and hopefully whenever that happens it won’t be as big of a part of my life as it previously was and I can manage my time on there better.

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Comments

This is intriguing to me, especially since I'm a part of Gen Y as well. I joined Facebook in college, but I think now it really has become a part of my ultra-connected life. With the mobile experience, it's hard not to check it on your smartphone every few hours.

I'm on the same for events - so many of my friends and family will create events on FB without a face to face interaction. I'd be interested to see how long Jessica is able to stay disconnected from FB!

Posted by: Anita on Apr 16, 2012 5:46:47 PM

I tried being inactive from facebook for a few months because I was avoiding people. I was going through a tough time in my life. I think I can manage without it on a personal level. I have a friend who has a very active social life and he hasn't been active on facebook for what seems like a year already. Facebook makes it easier for us to stay in touch but it shouldn't be the ONLY way we do so.

Posted by: SEO Service Agency on Apr 24, 2012 12:48:54 AM

Life without Facebook can be a bit boring for some. But you can actually live without Facebook if you want a normal life. For me, since I am running an online business, having a Facebook account is a must. Everybody knows that Facebook is a pool for potential customers.

Posted by: Victoria Murphy on Jun 3, 2012 11:44:34 PM

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